I Surrender

I’m at my most peaceful in my evenings. Right after dinner and an episode of “Two and a Half Men”, it starts to roll into a steady relationship with my mind.

A heart pounding from libation, some beats hooked up in my ears and I’m all set to visit you guys. But guess what’s been dampening my spark, guess what’s been interrupting my peace and ooooohhh it’s so very uninvited – Rains!

Since past 4 days, at sharp 9 o’clock, after I’m back from my office, it starts to pour as if it’s the end of the damn world and doesn’t stop till I lose my internet connection. Damn these cables, that are so dear to replace. I’ll get you buggers come the next month.

This rain is winning the battle but I’ll win the war, you’ll see. And as I wait to lose my connection today, I surrender, for I can’t win against nature.

Lets see how many have already surrendered

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Unexplained Absence

Ok… I’ve had 3 of the most disconnected days ever since I got into job. Thursday night, it rained so rough here, I couldn’t connect to the internet the next morning and so I thought my internet went bust. I posted on Friday using my cellphone’s internet connection but it was so slow, it took me ages to post a single post and as I posted two, it got me very late and I woke up very late on Saturday.

In the afternoon, I decided to scrap my fitness plans for this month and get my laptop repaired instead. Man it was so difficult maintaining my temper with all the morons who were around me, the repairmen, the food stall guy, and especially the guy at the reception who acted like I broke HIS computer. Damn him!

Anyways, I got my laptop repaired and serviced and got a huge bargain to show for it. I got myself a new wireless router, a new webcam, and a smart little data stick. Man, I was so happy at such bargains when I returned home to find that the guy had sold me a switch than a router.

Damn I had to return 10 kms again to get the switch replaced by a wireless router – a fine one at that. Now that I got everything settled, I decided to not do anything on the internet but read a long pending book – The Associate by John Grisham. And boy did I finish it!

It’s a good book for it gives a very detailed look into the intricate details and makes the scenes very picturesque but I didn’t like the end! It was quite predictable right after you knew who the protagonist of the novel was. A lot of unexplained chapters especially the villain and the romance between the protagonist and his heroine.

But it’s a one time read. Try it!

Daily Prompt – Generation XYZ

We-Are-the-Facebook-Generation

To understand a generation, we need to understand what generation means in the first place. A generation by a dictionary means –

The average period, generally considered to be about thirty years, during which children are born and grow up, become adults, and begin to have children of their own“.

Welcome to our generation. Our generation that grew up hearing songs on CD players hung by our belts, grew up to carrying mp3 players and then iPods. Our generation that saw an internet boom, fought Y2k. Our generation that’s seen wars breaking states and countries into two. We probably witnessed the rise and spread of a technology revolution so big that it now has changed the lives for every living being on this planet. Things are now small enough to be held on the pore of our fingers which once couldn’t be held in hand bag.

We are the generation that believes that our future beckons to technology while we continue to value things that our parents taught us. We are the hybrids – the best of everything if we have our head in place and yet the worst of everything if we’ve lost it.

The generation that succeeds us, lets just say, gives up way too easily. They are weak hearted and weaker minded. They are affected more by movies and Facebook than their parents. Since I don’t have kids and I deride the next generation, ones that were born even a decade later, I’m going to talk about the generation that preceded us. We have tons to learn from them and yet tons to throw away what we learnt from them.

Our parents were strong for they believed more in human communication and touch. We learn senses. They weathered freedom struggles, wars of the worst kinds and yet survived to tell their tales. We learn toughness. They invented so much, we can’t help but wonder if we would still be the whiz-kids had they not laid the foundations. They invented bits and bytes. They invented memories. They gave the non-living, the brain to decide – yes or no. We can never waylay their contribution to the humanity.

My parents never failed to bring me in touch with that facet of their times. They taught me to see and think different. It’s a different side if I actually did it. But they tried their best. They cheered me up when I raised my first cricket bat. They were open-minded, for I was travelling alone in public buses responsibly taking care of my brother and his friend, when I was 8 years old. They taught me responsibility. Through the ups and downs of their lives, they taught me humility.

Crazy as I may sound now but our preceding generation tried teaching us society when they should have taught humanity. They taught us jealousy when it was competition we needed. They tried teaching us pride but all they really emanated was ego. We learnt to see the blackness in people first than embrace the truth of their deeds.

In this internet age, when the world is literally at our fingertips, we should try instilling hope, pride and humanity in our children than burn them early in their childhoods all the while suppressing their basic need for necessary freedom.

And I learnt this from my parents. Freedom if imparted carefully turns into responsibility much better than any other virtue.

Kids and Internet+Sex

What makes you a kid?

A desire to be playful.

Desire to play X-box/video games/computer games.

Desire to play pranks all the time.

Desire to stay with friends and never be responsible for your actions with parents intrusion a mandate.

Don’t know about today’s time but in our days, kids were just kids. They played, ate and studied. That’s it. No responsibilities, just chores to do, games to play and books to study.

But look at the kids today. They have a host of activities given to them by their schools. They know a lot, they can configure internet by themselves, facebooking, twittering on iPhones, Samsungs and flying, dancing, creating creative videos. I like this and this is how kids should be. Malleable to the extent that they turn into what their parents would ever want them be. Some parents though leave it to their children to find out their own paths only for their own laziness sake and fail to take notice of the direction in which the child is being brought up. The kids then are left to learn on their own and often land into dangerous zones.

Some of the kids are so smart, they know more about sex than some of us married adults do. They know what porn is at the age of 7 or 8, they are already circulating porn clips over bluetooth, wi-fi and 3G/4G. It’s amazing how kids these days get so much information when there are firewalls, software’s that prevent accessing such websites and PC configurations that allow only certain users to login. Have parents no idea what kids can get into with all this information? They are young playful minds and hardly ever do they know what stuff do they have their hands on.

In our days, parents used to govern over what time would we go out to play and they would check whether we had finished our assignments. My mother used to put a PC password so we don’t break into the computer and start playing games while they went for a walk in their evenings. I don’t think it happens today at all. The kids take to tuition very early and parents sometimes relieve themselves of their duties to monitor their outdoor activities. Keeping away from home for extra hours citing extra tuition hours and other such blackmails often land parents and children into a tussle over trust.

Kids just know so much these days like their childhood has completely been engulfed by Google. Are there any outdoor activities at all? Are they strong? Do they carry even half of our immunity? They are given what they want because they, from either internet or friends, have figured out ways to blackmail their parents.

Facebook properly teaches them what the meaning of fuck is. All kinds of swears in every possible language are freely accessible and they learn it, and one day BAM, in front of parents, lands a swear bomb!

I can say that yes there is an age when children ought to be left free to learn and parents should indulge in it as well to keep a tab on the quality of education the young ones receive. Teach them about internet – it’s pro’s and con’s. Teach them about sex and how (it), if had prematurely, can land a child in trouble.

I write this as I see kids around me and all I can say that if not the most fulfilling but I had a very safe childhood while these kids are losing their way early. May be they’ll be smarter but I can’t guarantee a lot of self-respect.

I don’t want to indulge the parents who have been successfully raising their children full of values. Here I only talk about parents and kids who have faltered.